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so that you almost have a sexual orgasm. Your whole body almost throbs as it should with a lover, and you pass through an orgasmic stage, mm? You may faint. Faint -- don't be worried. You may fall down -- fall down.
There is no problem in it. Completely change. It is something you have to do, and the sooner you do, the better Once you live with any misery for long, it becomes part of your mind and habit. Misery is not bad, but to make a habit of it is very very bad. You cannot avoid misery, but you can avoid making a habit of it.
For example, because of this accident you have been miserable for a year. You are paying too much for nothing. Now the trouble is that you may get in tune with it, you may become accustomed to it. A few days, a few months more, and you will start clinging to it because it will become a sort of companionship. Through feeling miserable you will start feeling good. You will start asking for sympathy... and never ask for sympathy, otherwise you will never get love. Sympathy is a poor substitute.
But it happens naturally -- when one is in misery, friends start coming, relatives will come, and they will feel sympathy, and you will start relishing it, enjoying it. And you will feel very good. When nobody feels miserable for you, you will feel that something is missing. Never settle for this. Come out of it immediately.
And life always opens another door whenever one closes. Be true to love, and don't be bothered about lovers. Once you are happy again, somebody may knock at your door. Remain available.
[She asks: What do you mean 'Be true to love'?]
I mean that one should always be in love with love. People fall in love with persons -- that's a wrong attitude. Do you understand me?
If you fall in love with a person and he dies, what to do? A person betrays you, leaves you, what to do? Find another person. Why be confined to him? Who knows -- there may be a better person waiting for you. Maybe it is only because of that better door which is going to open that this door has closed.
But this can be known only afterwards; only retrospectively, one can see how things happen. And it is my observation:
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