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is more valuable than failure you cannot be tranquil. Then stillness is not for you, and you are going to be disturbed again and again and again.
So get acquainted with this feeling more and more, and don't start trying to do something against it. Otherwise the mind will tend to create some unhappiness, some fight, some negativity, some sadness, anger, so that you can become unhappy again. And once you are unhappy you start desiring happiness -- and the whole wheel starts moving.
Don't give energy to that vicious circle now. Just keep aloof and go on doing things without being in any way attached. This is what Krishna has called in the Gita 'renunciation of action'. You act without any motivation, as if God acts through you.
So just leave everything to me. Just become a vehicle. I want Sudha to do something, so she does it. Whatsoever the result -- good or bad -- leave it to me.
[A group participant says: The group (Aum) was very difficult for me.... I have a lot of love for everyone I meet, and like to show it. But I feel misunderstood.... ]
Never be too worried about that -- because if you want to share your love, don't make it a condition that it should be understood. Love has become such a rare thing in the world that nobody understands it. Misunderstanding is more possible than understanding.
People have become suspicious, and they have their own ideas about love. Nobody takes love naturally. There are always some notions, some ideas, some fears, some suspicions. Nobody can believe that love can be simply for no reason at all. They think that there must be some motivation, some motive behind it -- otherwise why should someone be sharing his love? They think according to their own minds. They show love only when they have something to get out of it. They use love as a means. Whenever they come across a person who is not using love as a means, they are bound to misunderstand. But for their misunderstanding, you need not be miserable. That is their problem -- let them be miserable.
You simply go on sharing. How can you help it? If you say that you will love people only when everybody understands, then you will create
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