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felt also very much in love with her husband.]
That simply means that you still want some type of conflict and discord to continue.
It may not be love for the other man; it may just be love for conflict. We love conflicts because we feel powerful.
When everything is going well, one suddenly feels nothing is happening. One feels as if life is empty. If life is really harmonious, one feels empty... no excitement, no kick, no thrill. So people say that they would like a very peaceful life, but nobody really longs for it -- otherwise, nobody is creating any barrier. So they go on talking about, and they go on searching for a peaceful life -- and they go on creating disturbances. So beware, watch out. If you love Prakash, there is no need for any other man.
In fact that division shows something divided in you. When someone loves two persons, it simply shows that somewhere there is a division inside; you are not one. Hence the insistence that if you can love one it is going to help, because it will make you one.
If you cannot love [your husband] totally, drop him. I will take him out of your life -- but then be totally with the other man. There is nothing wrong in it, but be with one so that you can be one, mm? Just think -- a woman loving many persons becomes fragmentary. That's the misery of a prostitute.
I come across many prostitutes, and my feeling is that it is not really that society has forced them -- there are a few cases where society has forced them -- but basically it is their own psyche. They have so many persons inside them. Not one woman, but many women, a crowd. And that crowd cannot be satisfied by one man. And if you cannot be satisfied with one man or one woman, you cannot be satisfied with a thousand. Because if it is difficult to get in harmony with one, two will be more difficult, and three will be still more difficult. The greater the number, the greater will be the difficulty to create harmony.
So if you are really interested in peace, harmony, love, then settle for one -- even if it is hard in the beginning. It is hard because of the habit. It always gives a very very good feeling to have two lovers,
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