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nothing more. Remember that learning is the point, and learning is possible only if you experiment. Trial and error is the only way.
So don't make rules, mm? Just float.
[The groupleader asks: It comes up in the group that people say I am ego-tripping. Should I just accept that?]
Accept it. To accept the ego is to go beyond it, because the ego is never willing to accept. That's its defence. The ego is always protective and defensive. It goes on always saying that you are not on an ego-trip.
Once you say 'Yes, maybe I am on an ego-trip', it is finished. Then what is the point of the ego? Then you become defenceless; you accept it. And if you feel that yes, you are on an ego-trip, there is no need to even say 'maybe'. Say 'Certainly I am on an ego-trip -- and I am enjoying it!' In that moment there is no ego, because when you accept, the whole game is gone.
The game consists of not accepting. People are saying that you are on an ego-trip, and you say that you are a humble man, the most humble man in the world (laughter). You say that you are not on an ego-trip. You may be. That i the ego -- accept it. If you feel certain, accept it with certainty. If you are not certain say 'maybe', 'perhaps'. If you think that you are not on ar, ego-trip, but the other is feeling very happy saying that you are, then let him enjoy it! That is his ego-trip so why be worried about it! Good.
[A group member says: I felt was a lot of fear and disgust for my parents. I feel that I'm still attached to my mother by the cord, and so I can't be myself....
I think it may be the centre of a lot of fears that I have.
Osho checks her energy.]
Very good. I can feel what it ;s.... It will go. This group has been very good, and has brought up many things. Primal (therapy) will be very good.
It is going to help. That is the group that people don't want to do!
It is something to do with the primal pain, some birth trauma, so it has to be relived. Once you relive it you will be relieved of it; otherwise it will persist. There is nothing you can do about it right now. You will have to move back, move back to the past and relive
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