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me. While sitting with friends, let that be a group. While swimming let that be a group. Just learn the basic principles that help you: one, two, three -- there are not many. Just remember those two, three principles and let your life be run on those three principles. Soon you will see that the whole of life is a group.
What can a group do? A group is such a small thing and such a big world is going on all around. Why not make it a group? It is a group, and this whole ashram is a group.
But you are simply afraid that the old will come and you are not doing anything to prevent it coming. You will have to learn that, otherwise the old can come; because if you start functioning with your old mind, again it will be there.
At least for a few months one has to function on new principles. Then the old becomes rotten, loses functioning, and you have a new mind to work with. You don't fall into the old again and again.
So tonight just sit silently, remember what things have helped you in the group. Write them down: one, two, three -- in short -- just the basic principles about what had helped you, what made you feel so good. And then from tomorrow morning follow those things. Try that just for a few days, and you will be surprised -- the whole of life is a group; it is a growth situation.
And if you start falling back, remind me again, mm?
[She has asked several times about being in love with someone who is already in a relationship, and Osho has told her to find someone else. Now she tells him she is still with this person, but feels guilty.]
Be! That is your business!...
There is no need to feel guilty... there is no need to feel guilty. Be with him -- just don't bring that problem to me, mm? because then it has nothing to do with me. It is your business to decide. If some problem arises or something, don't bring that problem to me, that's all. No need to feel guilty.
If you want to do that, do it. A few people only learn by experiencing things, so you have to go through the experience, that's all. I cannot... even knowing that something is going wrong I cannot prevent you and I don't want to prevent you. Because
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