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can open totally. And in that very opening you become one. When two persons are open they are not two. Only two closed persons are two -- two open persons are not two. When the walls exist two rooms are two -- when the walls disappear, the two rooms are not two. How can they be two? Without the walls the room is one!
And that is where the fulfillment is. That's what every lover is seeking for, searching for, hankering after, dreaming about, desiring, but not understanding rightly -- you can go on seeking and searching in a wrong direction.
So the first direction is the idea of surrendering to each other. The second wrong direction is becoming afraid that she may leave you or that you may leave her. Both are wrong, and once those wrong attitudes disappear you can really be open -- there is no fear then; why be closed?
She may not be there the next moment, so why not allow her to see you totally? She may not meet you again -- there is no necessity, there is no inevitability. This may be your last meeting, this moment may be the last moment -- next moment she may die! Next moment she may become attracted to somebody else. Next moment you may die, next moment you may start thinking of some other woman.
So the next moment cannot be predicted. This is the last moment -- why not open? Why not totally give whatsoever you can give? so there is no repentance later on that you could not give to that woman, you were holding back.
When there is no fear of the future, when you are not trying to manage the future, you don't want the future to be a certain way -- you never know. When you remain in ignorance about the future, there is an opening.
And the surrender is not for each other, so there is no fear of domination. You can relax, she can relax. In that relaxation two energies meet and mingle and a single moment can become almost an eternity. A single moment can be so fulfilling that you may live for lives and Not be able to get that fulfillment.
And I am not saying that there is any necessity for you to separate. My whole understanding is: how can you separate then? When you have known that unity of being one, when you have
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