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tremendously. The closer you come to the peaks, the more you are transformed. So whatsoever you have learned... you may have seen only a few glimpses which show something about how you are -- but they are valuable. Once you see that this is how you are, what you are, already a possibility of change has opened. Now it is up to you to use it.
A group cannot give you life -- it can only give you insights. Then you have to implement these insights. You have to go into life and see how you can work with these insights now. Old habits will come in the way. They will try to create confusion, but don't listen to them. Put them aside. Tell them, 'I have been working with you long enough. Enough is enough! No more of that nonsense. Let me try the new insight.' Whenever there is a fight between the old and the new, always choose the new -- because the old you have tried and it has not done anything.
The old has much appeal because it is the familiar one, the easier one. You have been on it for so long that you can move in it like a robot and there is no problem in it. The territory is known and you have the map. You can move with blindfolded eyes. You know where to turn right and where to turn left, so things are easier. With the new, things are harder, but with the new there is the possibility of your becoming new.
So never listen to the old. Always choose, vote for the new... go with the new -- even if you go astray sometimes. Sometimes you may go astray, but there is nothing wrong in it. Even that is better than going with the old. Just being repetitive is the worst thing in the world. If your virtue has become repetitive, I will say choose a new sin. But at least let it be new, because that will renovate you, renew you, release new life in you. So choose the new, move with the new. Implement it... allow women to come dose!
And whatsoever insight you have gained, before it disappears give it roots in your being.
[An assistant says: In the group I really feel a lot of love for people but then somehow when I come out, I'm very negative with my partner].
There is going to be a difference in the group and outside it, but there is no
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