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is wrong. Do whatsoever is spontaneous. If you decide what is wrong and what is right you will go nuts. And then she will suffer. Just be spontaneous. Sometimes to be annoyed is perfectly right... perfectly good -- nothing is wrong in it. The whole idea of right and wrong is wrong. You are a mother so you know from your inward core what to do and what not to do; this should not be decided by the mind. It is just like a cat knows how to catch the rat... no school is needed for the cat.
So just be a good mother to her and by "a good mother" I mean a spontaneous mother. And sometimes screaming is good, because life will scream at her, so she has to be prepared for that. Her husband will shout, so she has to be prepared for that....
When she is relaxed, be relaxed; when she is annoyed, be annoyed, but don't make it a program -- that you have to do this. Whatsoever happens, let it happen.
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Anand means bliss, dharmo means religion -- the religion of bliss. And my religion contains only one word: that word is bliss. To be blissful is to be religious. To be sad is to be irreligious. So whatsoever makes you blissful is right; that has to be imbibed more. Whatsoever makes you sad has to be dropped.
People have learned the ways of being sad because when they are sad and serious they look important. When they are playful, happy, joyous, they don't look important. The priest is serious, the professor is serious, the politician is serious, and they have become the models; people are following them.
Follow children -- non-serious, playful. Become a child again, and then there is no need for any Bible or Koran. Then there is no need to go into any church or temple; wherever you are is the temple. Joy is the temple of God. Laughter is prayer. And if one can live in a laughing way, dancing way, one has known how to live.
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Prem means love, abhijat means aristocrat -- the aristocracy that comes through love. Love makes one an aristocrat because love is the greatest luxury in the world, the greatest richness. The person who knows how to love is the most affluent person; all
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