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will support her, that this is a very loving decision. But the reality is just the opposite; it is not a loving decision.
So don't ask me about how to take care. Ask me how to be more meditative, how to be more loving, how to be more joyful, because that which is growing within you needs nourishment -- and your meditation will give it nourishment, your joy will give it warmth, your love will give it dignity.
A man, narrowly reared by a widowed mother, got married. He telephoned back to his mother from the honeymoon hotel to say that he knew there was something he had to do in bed, but he did not know what it was.
"Why," said his mother, "you put your... eh, that is, you put the hardest part of yourself in the place where your wife wee-wees."
At midnight the hotel rang the fire brigade for help. "We have got a young man with his head jammed in a chamber pot."
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Question 4
BELOVED OSHO,
HOW COME I HAVE ALWAYS FELT, EVER SINCE CHILDHOOD, THAT I AM MORE THAN TWO PEOPLE? COULD YOU SAY SOMETHING PLEASE?
Prem Prabhati, everybody is born as one single individual, but by the time he is mature enough to participate in life he has become a crowd. It is not anything special that you are feeling; it is almost the case with everybody. The only difference is that you are becoming aware of it, which is good. People are not aware of it.
If you just sit silently and listen to your mind, you will find so many voices. You will be surprised, you can recognize those voices very well. Some voice is from your grandfather, some voice is from your grandmother, some voice is from your father, some voice is from your mother, some voice is from the priest, from the teacher, from the neighbors, from your friends, from your enemies. All these voices are jumbled up in a crowd within you, and if you want to find your own voice, it is almost impossible; the crowd is too thick.
In fact, you have forgotten your own voice long before. You were never given freedom enough to voice your opinions. You were always taught obedience. You were taught to say yes to everything that your elders were saying to
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