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copy. In fact that is not possible. Each individual is so unique. If you become a copy, you can become a copy only on the surface; deep inside you remain yourself. You can never be somebody else.
Think about it, mm? And my feeling is that you are going to become a sannyasin from the head first. Feeling will take a long time, maybe lives. But if you become a sannyasin feeling may start flowing; that may be the beginning. These things are so interrelated, just like the egg and the hen. You bring an egg: it can become the hen; you bring the hen, it can give you an egg. They go that way, parallel.
Good: if it can happen from the heart it will change your head. If it happens from your head, it will start entering and filtering into the heart. But think! Whenever you feel, mm? Good!
The Open Door
Chapter #2
Chapter title: None
2 December 1977 pm in Chuang Tzu Auditorium
Archive code: 7712025
ShortTitle: OPENDR02
Audio: No
Video: No
[A couple are present. The man, known for his crazy behaviour, says that he's been feeling crazier than ever, that he feels he's been trying to prove something, that he's consciously trying for something way out to happen.
Osho talks at length to him about only doing that which is true to his nature.
He then addressed the woman.]
Help him to be whatsoever he is, otherwise you will lose him. If you want to have him, allow him to be himself, because he is a crazy person. It is beautiful to be in love with a crazy person but if you start telling him like any Indian woman, 'Do this, don't do that... this is not right, this is immoral and this is moral,' you will either kill him or he will escape and will never come back to you. He is not that kind of person; he is a rare bird, mm? -- you cannot hold him in a cage. If you really want him to be with you, throw the cage and he can be with you, but he will be with you only out of freedom.
Allow him his being. Mm? sometimes he may do things which may not look good to you, but that has to be understood. And you can also enjoy freedom, because when you give freedom to him, naturally
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