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When a woman really loves you, that simply means that she would like to be one with you and would like you to become one with her. And only women know how to love. Man is always amateurish and because he is amateurish in love he has become expert in many other things. That is just to complement, because he has been always feeling that in love the woman always defeats him. He has to prove himself somewhere else -- in science, in technology, in this and that, expertise.
... And she looks like a sixteen-year-old child in love. If you don't become afraid it will give you great blessings. If you start becoming afraid you will shrink. So go whole-heartedly into it; let it be a total affair. You will be enriched. And by total I am not meaning that you have to love her always or she has to love you always. That idea of always only comes out of a non-total mind. The total mind lives in this moment. This moment is all, so don't think of tomorrows. If you think of tomorrows you will miss today, and tomorrows never come. Think as if this is the only time that you have. Love her totally and be loved by her totally.
And remember that too: loving is easy to a man, accepting love is very difficult, because a man is such an egoist that giving love goes perfectly okay with the ego: 'I am the giver.' But when it comes to receiving the love and to being surrounded by the woman, clouded by the woman, utterly effaced by the woman, and she goes on pouring, man starts feeling a little shaky as far as the ego is concerned. To give love is easier for a man; to receive is the most difficult thing.
So if you are alert about these things much is possible. This love will give you something which is divine... a glimpse of it. And that glimpse becomes the proof that God is. So if somebody comes to me and asks, 'What is the proof of God?' I say, 'Love, and you will find the proof.' Logic is not the proof; only love is the proof. But you are already looking afraid!
[To the woman] make him as afraid as you can, mm?
Don't shrink seeing his fear. He will be afraid; every man is. Whenever a woman is really in love the man becomes afraid --
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