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will come! I know what it is... I know -- it will come. Just do a few things.... One thing: stop being serious -- laugh more, make people laugh more.
[She answers: I can't do that!]
Try! Never say 'can't'! Never say 'can't', because I have never seen anything that can't be done. If you say 'can't' then it becomes difficult. Try, give it a try! What can you lose? You can lose at the most, your misery -- nothing to be worried about! Try to laugh, help people to laugh ....
... My feeling is -- and I have enquired about you because I was worried about what was happening.... People say that when they come close to you, you close....
Yes -- so don't close! If you close, then they don't come. When they don't come, you feel bad, you feel that they are avoiding you.... It will go -- it is just a mechanism, it is not a big problem. There are people who really have a problem -- people whose energy from their very childhood has been sad. They are the real problem people -- it is almost impossible to bring them out of it. It is not a habit, it is their nature. Yours is just a habit -- it Is not your nature. Hold hands, hug people. Forget that you are old you are not old, nobody is!
... You feel old because you see so many young people and you compare; you see so many happy people laughing and enjoying and holding and hugging -- comparison arises. And then you start remembering your life -- you never did those things when you were young. You never laughed, you never danced, and these people are enjoying. You feel jealous. You feel jealous of these people... the whole world will feel jealous of these people if they come to know about them! (laughter) I am creating such people that really everybody will feel jealous -- people with no inhibitions, with no taboos; they are really enjoying (laughter)... with no guilt, nothing!
[To a group leader], help her, mm? Whenever you find her, just hold her and hug her and don't bother whether she closes or not. Just bring her out of it. She will come, and she will become a beautiful person once she comes out of it. So to everybody here this work is given, mm? [She] has to be brought out of it! (laughter)
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